Thinking of Mother’s Day, and Thinking of You

Twelve years ago, I lost my mom to ovarian cancer. She was the greatest person I have met (and probably will ever meet). Kind, sweet, caring. The most loving person who always did for others before she thought of herself. She’d do the typical mom thing: give hugs and great advice, embarrass you in front of your friends, dancing around a car with the windows down, blasting “The Thong Song.” Ok, perhaps not THAT typical. But, she was always there for me and my sister to help us navigate life when we needed guidance.

That is what I miss the most.

Each year when Mother’s Day approaches, I reflect and remind myself that while I lost my mom on that August morning 12 years ago, her love is always felt.

When I need her strength, I close my eyes and feel her presence.

When I struggle, I remember her fight.

When I need a hug, she makes sure that someone is there to give it to me.

When I need a reminder that she is listening, her favorite song “I Hope You Dance” always plays.

When I am lost, I remember her favorite saying, ”Everything is coming up roses.”

It’s what keeps me going…and smiling.

I am so lucky to have incredible women in my life who have been and will continue to be there for me. I am forever thankful. This Mother’s Day, I know I’m not alone; many others also don’t have a mom there to celebrate.

Just because my mom isn’t there, doesn’t mean we don’t celebrate her life. She continues to keep that promise that so many mothers make to their kids: “Regardless of what happens, I will always be there.”

So, if you are going through something similar, remember you are not alone. Use this Sunday as a way to celebrate your mom and all of the incredible women who helped make you the person you have become.

And remember: Everything’s Coming Up Roses.